I’m not a fan of myself, in fact, my self-deprecating abilities are legendary. Every single guy I met, dated, did, do, tell me the same thing… STOP lowering yourself!
I’m very likeable I guess, and good at many things, but next to whoever I am, I always feel like nothing. So, getting people interested in me makes me feel guilty.
Yesterday I officially said sayonara to Alex to give a chance to Carl, which by now officially asked me to date him.
However, in between Alex and Carl, there were 3? (okay 4) other guys (I’m so terrible!) and today I had to deliver the news to some of them ’cause it’s not cool to play with feelings.
While by being honest you risk to feel like a piece of shit for few seconds, by lying you ARE a piece of shit FOREVER!
The most bitter truth is always better than the sweetest lie.
Just an advice from the most imperfect guy.