The Good Wife

I got a text from Xavier this morning and he made my day.

It’s been awhile since we last chat, but I don’t usually text him because as much as I miss him I don’t want to be annoying, plus he is in a new relationship I think.

Regardless, whenever I see his name on my screen it makes me smile.

Lots of me has changed since he left, but everything I feel inside for him remains the same…

Like a good wife, bitches!!


Autumnal Asks

I’m a blogger and this is home, but I also like Tumrl, the fun twisted people on it and their many random questions.

Below some of them:

lantern – how did you meet your best friend? What were your first impressions of each other? On a house party, since we both have strong personalities we didn’t click, so I didn’t like him.

frost – if you could give some advice to your younger self, what would you say? Don’t be so shy ’cause you’ll miss great stuff.

maple – is there a hobby / skill that you’ve always wanted to try but never did? Pole dancing.

harvest – what fictional character do you most identify with? Why? Sadly I have lots of Carrie Bradshaw in a the way of how much of a dreamer she was.

fireside – if you had your dream wardrobe, what would it look like? No idea.

cider – a food that you disliked as a child but now enjoy? Wheat.

amber – share an unpopular opinion that you may have. Most skinny guys are hung.

fog – how well do you think you’d do in a zombie apocalypse scenario? I’d kill myself.

jack-o-lantern – if you could look like any celebrity, who would you choose? But… What gender?

spice – have you ever encountered a house that you believed to be haunted? Yes, one of my old apartments.

orchard – share one thing that you’d like to happen this autumn. Win the lottery!

crow – which school subject do you wish you had an aptitude for? All of them!

bonfire – describe your dream house. High ceiling, big windows, modern and minimalist.

cinnamon – if you had to live in a time period different than the present, which would you choose and where? I’m actually a vampire, and I like the present.

cobweb – (if you’ve graduated) do you miss high school? I don’t, but I miss the friends I used to have.

cranberry – what’s one physical feature that you get complimented on? A toss up between my ass and my eyes.

maize – share the weirdest encounter you’ve had with a stranger on the street. I have several but I remember once this random man told me he could see my energy, told me I lived many lives and I was a good man. Also he said in the world we have celestials and aliens and told me I was an alien.

quilt – how do you take your tea (or coffee)? Hot, dark and sweet

pumpkin – do you think that humans are inherently good or bad? Bad.

moonlit – are you a neat or messy person? Is your room / house orderly? Very neat!

flannel – have you ever gone on a bad date? Yes!

cocoa – if you could have any type of hair, what colour and cut would you have? Actually my hair is wavy but I’d like it straight, black and longer.

ghost – is there someone that you miss having in your life? YES!

Linguistic Family Tree

I love languages and cultures so I needed to blog about this.

Did you know that most of the different languages we speak today can actually be placed in only a couple of groups by their origin? This is what illustrator Minna Sundberg has captured in an elegant infographic of a linguistic tree which reveals some fascinating links between different tongues.

Using the research data from Ethnologue, Minna has used a tree metaphor to illustrate how all major European, and even plenty of Eastern languages can be grouped into Indo-European and Uralic “families”.

The whole image is dotted with languages, with bigger leaves representing those with the most native speakers.

For everyone wondering about Chinese, Arabic, African and Indigenous languages of the Americas, this chart is ONLY for the group of languages known as Indo-European.

Regardless, great illustration.


I know I know. Where the hell have I been right? (let’s pretend you care).
Unlike my energetic last week, this week was more relax. In other words, less men in my bed and more early sleep… Age is a bitch!

I saw Victor few days ago and I can’t still believe I have that stallion doing me. He’s so my type of guy (perfect bf material) but I can’t show him that…

Fuckfriends are made to pleasure and not for feelings.

On the other hand, I was supposed to see Matias (or Alexxx) last night but I was too tired, so I cancelled both…  However, I’m supposed to see Nick this evening because he’s obviously (also) hot, but mostly, he’s the type of male I know I could build a strong bond with.

And I said supposedly because another hot guy (Philippe) wants to take me out tonight… And UGH! I really don’t know what to do anymore.

I’m pretty fucked if you ask. 

Sometimes it feels like a punishment being so likeable ’cause I cannot please all at the same time.

I should just organise an orgy and make everyone happy at once.

Anyway I’m a bit tired, but I’d better start my day….

Because my night is going to be very busy.

The Season For Love

September 22 marks the fall equinox, or the first day of autumn. And naturally, Google is all over it with a doodle honouring the occasion….

Autumn is my favourite season, it’s not too hot, not too cold, and the landscape is a dream.

Red and yellow all over and carpets of leaves. 

To me summer is the season of horniness, but autumn is the season for romance.

It’s warm enough to be outside together, but cool enough to snuggle up and spoon at night.

Every autumn reminds of Bunny and our Halloween party. Of Jaden walking together the streets of the Old Montreal. It reminds of Joseph and our passionate journey while living in the Mont Royal… Of David randomly kissing me in the middle of the street under the red trees. And it reminds me of Xavier holding my hand while walking to our favourite restaurant.

The year round is sexual to me, but autumn it’s special…

It’s the season I consciously see how much I love being in love not caring for a second if the end always comes.