When I was a kid, the word gay was the image of someone effeminate, and pretty much the opposite of masculine.
South America 30 years ago was a nightmare of clichés.
I’ve always thought that if you’re horny and playing with your cock and there is another guy around doing pretty much the same thing, then that’s a gay thing, yet some straight guys do it too because they’re not gay but “bros.”
In fact, the image of two guys playing with their dicks is very “masculine.”
All this thinking came after a conversation I had with someone I exchange few messages the other day, on how gays LOVE to discriminate each other by the way they look.
Although I’ve never waste my time arguing about this subject with those having this dumb issue, it got on my nerves few times because of their rudeness.
You know, all those guys into “masc 4 masc” remind me of those closeted politicians and Christians in a way, because in the end they all act like “girls” when they have a cock in their mouth.
I understand everyone is attracted by a specific image, a type, but I don’t understand the nastiness and aggressiveness towards someone you’re not attracted to.
When I used to be a top happened to me that a bottom criticised me for looking “too pretty” before fucking the living hell out of him. Usually right after sex, his whole concept of “too pretty to be a top” changed.
These days I face other type of criticism (sometimes) if my butt is too solid, if my skin is too soft, if I’m too muscular for a bottom, and assorted dumb shit like that.
Too pretty, too skinny, too fat, too ugly, too old, too hairy, too feminine, too whatever, and yet the same gays discriminating one another march in their parades asking equality and respect…
I read many times of gay Asians complaining about that “Not into Asians,” while most of those Asian only fuck white guys.
First of all, nah! What I think is that gays actually love labels and clichés.
I see life differently, if you don’t like hickeys or ass grabbing we are a no. But I’m not going around numbering other guys the physical traits I don’t like from them.
If you have nothing good to say don’t say anything at all is a saying everyone should learn.